Big Rocks


Big Rocks


Big rocks are your top priority in life. They are the duties and goals you want to accomplish. When people consider their priorities, they frequently encounter 3 main issues:

1. They have too many priorities

2. They cant differentiate the truly important priorities.

3. They let other less-important things get in the way of focusing on what really matters. 


Have you heard of the Big rocks jar? Well this is one of the most interesting and inspiring stories. 

A philosophy professor once stood up before class with a large empty jar. He filled the jar to the top with large rocks and then he asked his students if the jar was full. 

The students all agreed that the jar was indeed full.

He then added small pebbles in the jar and then asked them again, "Is the jar full now?"

They said "Yes".

The professor then poured sand into the jar to fill up any remaining empty space. The students then agreed that the jar was completely full. 



Rocks: The rocks represent the most important goals  and projects  you have going on, such as spending time with your family and being healthy. This means that even if the pebbles and sand were missing, the jar would still be full and your life still be meaningful.

Pebbles: The pebbles indicate the things in your life that are important but could be done without. The pebbles are undoubtedly things that give your life significance (such as your profession, home, interests, and friendships), but they are not required for you to live a meaningful life. These things come and go and are neither lasting nor necessary to your overall well-being.

Sand: The sand represents the remaining filler items and material possessions in your life. This could include activities as simple as watching television, visiting your favourite social media site, or doing errands. These things don't matter much in the grand scheme of things, and they're probably only done to pass the time or complete minor tasks.




It is vital to prioritise what goes in your jar and put the most significant items, such as large pebbles, in first. Allowing distractions and minor chores to rule your time means you're putting the pebbles and sand in first, leaving no room for the big boulders.


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